Ladies, if you want a description of the RIGHT KIND OF LOVER the Lord wants you to have, read Ephesians Chapter 5.  He’s the man God is creating for you.  He will make you say, “Lord, I don’t mind waiting”.

  • He will love you as Jesus Christ loves the Church. 5:25
  • He will love you as he loves his own body. In other words, he will love you as he loves his own life.  5:28
  • He will cherish and care for you, as if you were his body. 5:29
  • He will leave his parents for you. 5:31
  • And you will become one with him. 5:31

Oh ladies, this man will be created in God’s image designed just for you. He will be strong and fill with the strength of the Lord; yet a gentleman when it comes to taking care of you. He will provide and protect you. He will be prosperous in all he does.  He will anticipate your needs, and every day He will show you how much He loves you. You won’t have to perform to earn His love, and no one will be able to influence His opinion of you. He will never disown you, because you will be part of him. And he will be a man after God’s heart, and your partner for life.


He’ll never leave you standing alone out in the cold.
Your value to him is worth more than mere gold.

He’ll never leave you standing alone out in the cold.
Your value to him is worth more than mere gold.

You’ll never have to wonder where his money went.
Because he’ll take care of the kids and pay the rent.

He’ll never lie, and he will treat you right.
He’ll stand by your side, and you won’t have to fight.

He won’t lie or flirt to break your heart.
He never wants to see the love of his life falling apart.

He’ll be around and never let you down.
He’ll always be there, to make sure you never frown.

He’s going to put you first, and that you can depend.
For better or worse; he will be with you until the very end.

This is the love you should be waiting for, so don’t settle!


(And men, if you want pointers on how to love a woman spend some time meditating in the book of Ephesians, and you will rise up each day thanking the Lord for blessing you with the love you desire.)

Excerpt from “The Prepared Woman Series”, soon to be released.

About Shearon Hurst

I've been in the ministry for over 20 years. My writing ministry has been blessing people on the internet for over 10 years with words of encouragement which I send out to strengthen and comfort those in their walk with the Lord. I can easily speak on the subject of letting go, let God and get on with your life so you can move on a higher level. Having dealt with abuse, abandonment, rejection, and disappointment; I overcame the odds against me and pressed my way forward as the Spirit of the Lord led me into a more glorious path. I have a passion for the heart of women, and can minister to the wounded and broken hearted. I can speak to married women having been there and done that... to the single again women being there. My plethora of life experiences gives value to my desire to share and help others. My love for the Lord is what drives me to take a leap of faith and lean on God’s infinite wisdom, because I know with Christ nothing is impossible.
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